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Home/Biblical and Theological/When Words Aren’t Enough:

When Words Aren’t Enough:

How to Strengthen Yourself in the Lord

Written by Shannon Kay McCoy | Wednesday, June 4, 2025

David is completely alone—exhausted, blamed, and betrayed. But right there, in the depths of despair, comes one of the most hope-filled statements in Scripture: “But David strengthened himself in the Lord his God.” Let’s look at the five steps David took to strengthen himself in the Lord.

 

“And David was greatly distressed, for the people spoke of stoning him, because all the people were bitter in soul, each for his sons and daughters. But David strengthened himself in the Lord his God.”
1 Samuel 30:6

Recently, God brought me into a situation I didn’t see coming—one that abruptly changed the course of my life. There was no warning. No time to prepare. Just a sudden and overwhelming transition into a role that demanded more of me than I thought I had to give. It was a position that stretched me, challenged me, and left me feeling like I was trying to drink water from a fire hydrant. Everything came at me fast, and I had to learn even faster just to survive. There was no margin for rest, no space to breathe. I had to navigate a complex and difficult system where everything felt unfamiliar and urgent.

I wanted to quit. I wanted to run. I wanted to escape the pressure and the pain. But deep down, I knew something I couldn’t ignore: God had brought me here. This wasn’t a detour—this was a divine appointment.

Then it hit me—I was completely alone in this battle. I realized that there was no one who could help, no one who could rescue me from this situation, and no amount of encouraging words could fix the deep distress I was experiencing. Their support was appreciated, but my soul needed something far more enduring.

I came to the sobering conclusion that if I tried to run from this, I wouldn’t just be running from hardship—I’d be running from the Lord who was sovereign over it all. That thought stopped me in my tracks.

It was in that moment of emotional exhaustion and spiritual desperation that God brought one verse to my heart: “But David strengthened himself in the Lord his God” (1 Sam. 30:6).

That’s what I needed—not escape, not comfort, not easy answers. I needed to strengthen myself in the Lord my God. My circumstances had brought me to my knees, and the only hope I had was to face the God who reigns over my storm and believe that He was still with me in it.

If you’re facing your own fire hydrant moment—where everything feels like too much, too fast, too hard—I invite you to journey with me through this passage. Let’s look together at how David found strength, not from within, but from the Lord his God—and how we can do the same.

David’s Decision

In 1 Samuel 30, David returns with his men to their home in Ziklag, only to find it burned to the ground. Their wives and children have been taken captive by the Amalekites. Everything is gone. His men—grieving, angry, and desperate—turn on David and talk of stoning him.

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