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Home/Biblical and Theological/“I Will Go To Him, But He Will Not Return To Me”

“I Will Go To Him, But He Will Not Return To Me”

Why This Passage Is Not About the Death of Elect Infants

Written by Zachary Conover | Thursday, April 30, 2026

David’s words acknowledge a boundary he could not cross. Christ’s work declares that the boundary itself has been broken. And that is where the passage ultimately leads us.

 

David’s fall with Bathsheba marks a decisive turning point in the narrative of Samuel. Up to this moment, one theme has defined David’s life above all others. It is not his courage, his wisdom, or his military success. It is this: the Lord was with him.

From his anointing onward, the favor of Yahweh rests on David. Scripture repeatedly emphasizes that the Lord gives him victory wherever he goes (2 Samuel 8:6, 8:14). David prospers because God is present with him.

That makes his sin in 2 Samuel 11 all the more devastating.

When David takes Bathsheba and orchestrates the death of Uriah, the prophet Nathan confronts him and announces judgment. The consequences are personal and immediate. Evil will rise against David from within his own house (2 Samuel 12:10-11), and the child born from this union will be struck with illness.

“The Lord afflicted the child that Uriah’s wife bore to David, and he became sick.”
(2 Samuel 12:15)

The text does not soften this at all. The affliction is attributed to God. This is covenantal judgment.

A Common Interpretation

This passage is often cited in discussions about what happens to infants who die. When David says,

“I shall go to him, but he will not return to me.”
(2 Samuel 12:23)

some take this as a statement of confidence that the child is in heaven, and therefore as indirect support for the idea that all infants who die are saved.

That’s a serious theological claim and I would hesitate to make it on the basis of one verse. It asks more of the text than the text is trying to give.

The focus of this passage is not to resolve the eternal destiny of infants. It is to show the weight of David’s sin, the certainty of God’s judgment, and the shape of David’s repentance.

The Weight of Judgment

The death of the child is not presented as an isolated event. It is explicitly tied to David’s sin.

“Because by this deed you have utterly scorned the Lord, the child who is born to you shall die.”
(2 Samuel 12:14)

The child suffers as a result of David’s actions. The situation is meant to feel heavy. Scripture doesn’t try to relieve that tension quickly.

At the same time, Nathan also declares something remarkable:

“The Lord also has put away your sin; you shall not die.”
(2 Samuel 12:13)

Judgment and mercy appear side by side. David doesn’t receive the death penalty his sin deserves, yet consequences still unfold within his household.

David’s Response

David’s behavior during the child’s illness is intense. He fasts, weeps, and lies on the ground, pleading with God.

“David therefore sought God on behalf of the child. And David fasted and went in and lay all night on the ground.”
(2 Samuel 12:16)

He holds onto the possibility of mercy:

“Who knows whether the Lord will be gracious to me, that the child may live?”
(2 Samuel 12:22)

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