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Home/Opinion/Virtual Friendship – it trivializes the notion of friendship and it erodes our sense of community.

Virtual Friendship – it trivializes the notion of friendship and it erodes our sense of community.

Written by John Muether | Thursday, November 4, 2010

Electronic culture separates as it disembodies. The paradox is that it links us to folk far away while it separates those from whom we are closest.

Let’s begin with a reasonably safe prediction: you are not likely to finish this article. That is not merely because of the prose of the author (though I concede it doesn’t help). It is based on reliable statistics that indicate how attention spans have shortened.

It may be an exaggeration to suggest, as The Atlantic Monthly provocatively proposed a few months ago, that Google is making Americans stupid. But the internet giant and its coconspirators are rendering us more restless, and, as in the title of Maggie Jackson’s recent book, distracted. In our digital age, focused attention is made more difficult. Multitasking fragments our thinking, and moments of reflection are punctured by the urgent text message. Concentration drifts after a few paragraphs, and we have lost the art of deep and thoughtful reading.

We are all reasonably computer literate by now. Technologically enhanced social networking via cell phones, email, blogging, twitter, or whatever is next are unavoidable features of our electronic landscape. We have come to accept the reality of them with little reflection. Beyond our atrophied reading habits, the effect of our social networking world is at least twofold: it trivializes the notion of friendship and it erodes our sense of community.

John R. Muether is associate professor of church history at Reformed Theological Seminary in Orlando, Florida. His most recent book is Cornelius Van Til: Reformed Apologist and Churchman.

Read More (and prove John wrong!): http://www.ligonier.org/learn/articles/virtual-friendship/

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