When we get rid of God, it’s not that we have no standards, it’s that our standards have no foundation, and constantly shift. This frantic remoralising of sex will not lead to greater chastity, but it will lead to a governing by fear—fear of transgressing ever shifting boundaries. What we need is a rich, safe, beautiful, trust-filled environment for sexual intimacy with fixed and sacred boundaries. Sound familiar?

In the wake of the Harvey Weinstein scandal and a whole pile of other celebrity accusations, it has been sadly fascinating watching the west trying to claw its way back to some form of morality. At the Golden Globe awards earlier in January actors and actresses wore black as a way to say ‘Enough’ or ‘Me too’.

This would be the same Hollywood that releases 50 Shades of Grey and a host of other films, that endorses a hook-up and casual sex culture—and then acts self-righteously shocked and surprised that the culture that they created isn’t what they want to live in. Society tried to disconnect the sexual revolution from morality, and seems shocked when people behave in immoral ways. We want to be free to watch, but kid ourselves that watching won’t shape us.

Cue frantic back-peddling, or as some more cynically might call it, ‘virtue signalling’—that quick rush to show that you are just as virtuous as anyone else, whether or not your adoption of these virtues is a recent acquisition or even genuine at all. I do wonder how many of the artists parading around in black have paraded around in a lot less when it suited them.

The cat is out of the bag, the horse has bolted, and popular culture did the opening. The problem now is that they are trying to remoralise sex without any external guidelines. They want all the freedom of the sexual revolution, but want few of the consequences—men (and women) who treat sex like an appetite to be satisfied, or a tool to be used selfishly (for advancement or gratification). Not to mention consequences like STDs, broken marriages and shattered family life.

Yet the consequences are an inevitable outcome of taking one of God’s gifts and removing God’s guidelines for use.

What we are seeing now is an attempt to conjure up a new set of guidelines—man-made guidelines; Heaven forbid that we would return to God’s guidelines, that can’t be done at any cost. New guidelines will be drafted that will give freedom, but only as far as society defines it. And then society will shift, and all those who went as far as society previously permitted will be the new pariahs. And more black dresses will be worn, and more victims named.

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