Don’t use texting to say something you wouldn’t say aloud. The past few years have been full of people getting in trouble or losing their jobs over things they say in texts, emails, and other electronic means. If you are not willing for something to be read aloud, you should not put it in writing. Hopefully, you have trusted friends who would never share your personal, off-the-cuff remarks, but we can’t trust everyone. As leaders of the church, we are held to a higher standard, and all of our communication should reflect that.

On December 3, 1992, Neil Papworth fired up his computer, dialed on to the still-new internet, and typed “Merry Christmas.” In a feat of engineering that had never happened before, Papworth sent that message to the cellphone of Richard Jarvis—and text messaging was born.

It took a while for texting to catch on. With the arrival of the smartphone, however, the number of text messages ballooned. Messaging is easy, simple, and now ubiquitous.

It’s no wonder many people have found ways to use text messages as part of the church ministry. It’s a quicker, easier version of the “phone tree” system.

Churches use text messages to allow people to ask questions of the pastor, to give to the church, and to quickly disseminate information to large groups of people. Pastors can share Bible verses, encourage someone who is struggling, or remind the congregation of upcoming events.

There are many advantages to including texting as part of a church’s communication efforts. What used to be at least a five-minute phone call is now a 10-second text.

Texting has become so easy that some people prefer to use it for everything. Some would rather text than talk on the phone, especially us introverts.

Texting has many uses in ministry, but it lacks the face-to-face element that some situations require. Emojis don’t always cut it. There are some situations in which you shouldn’t text as part of your ministry.

1. Don’t use texting to have difficult conversations. You know you need to talk to certain people about letting go of a ministry, about their attitudes at meetings, or about sin you have seen in their lives. It’s tempting to think texting is an easy way to have those conversations, but you should never put your ease over someone else’s feelings.

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