Is the goal graduation? College acceptance? Or to raise moral citizens? As Christians, our highest aim for our children should be that they are brought up in the nourishment and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4).

I have noticed a growing trend in my area due to changes in state laws that allow for greater school choice. The increased accessibility to different models of education has led more and more families to explore alternatives to the public school system. In the last few months, there hasn’t been a week that goes by without hearing—directly or indirectly—of parents wrestling with what to do about their child’s education. As a parent, I have wrestled with this personally and pastorally for a long time. This article is based on my reading and reflection, both on the current state of education and on my attempt to form a theology and philosophy of education for my own children. With so many options available, the decision can feel overwhelming—but I hope to offer some biblical and practical considerations to help guide you.

Important Truths to Remember

We Are Accountable to God for Our Children’s Education

As parents, we are ultimately accountable for our children’s education.

• Scriptural References:
  • Deuteronomy 6:6–7 – “And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children…”
  • Proverbs 22:6 – “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”
  • Ephesians 6:4 – “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.”

We will give an account before God for the choices we make, whether actively or passively.

We Are Free in Christ

This is an important reminder for everyone reading this. We are free in Christ regarding the details of our children’s education. Biblically, there are no commands specifically forbidding state, private, or home-based education.

This does not mean there is no best answer, nor does it mean there isn’t a wrong answer for a particular situation. What it does mean is that this is an issue referred to as adiaphora—a matter of Christian freedom. As believers, God gives us the freedom to choose what best fits our situation, and we are not called to condemn others for their specific choice.

However, just because something is permissible does not mean all things are beneficial. (1 Corinthians 10:23 – “All things are lawful,” but not all things are helpful. “All things are lawful,” but not all things build up.”)

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