Jesus’ parable of the servants entrusted with their master’s gold is a timely reminder. For we too are trusted with little treasures. The story recounts one unfaithful servant, who hid his bag of gold rather than take the measures to invest it wisely.  He alone did not hear “well-done.”

“You’re never too old to want your dad to be proud of you,” my husband stated the other night as we both collapsed into bed, tired from a day of hard work.

Those poignant words took me immediately to the memory of my dad. His praise had such a huge impact on me then that to this day I think of my actions and how he would respond. What he accepted then still matters to me now. His affirmation steered desires and emotions, they brought me joy and sorrow.

Both my husband’s father and mine are gone, but the ghost of their approval and disapproval is a legacy we both cherish. What a picture of the Christian’s relationship with the Father.

“Well done, good and faithful servant,” Jesus’ parable in Matthew 25 reflects a desire to bring satisfaction for a job well done. It offers purpose beyond the daily rigmarole of tedious task.

As sons and daughters, we look to parents for the “well done.” As children of God, we do the same.

“Look, Daddy,” my five-year-old grandson calls, proud of finishing his task. The toys are put where they belong, and he waits for the expected and enthusiastic “well done, good job.” His daddy turns his head and gasps. Dad’s wide-eyed open-mouthed over the top delighted surprise makes his five-year-old beam.

In Jesus’ parable, the master gave resources to care for. Praise and correction received reflect an important spiritual reality. The words, “well done” indicate more than a report card of performance, they draw from our deep need to be loved and accepted. This heart attitude mirrors a child of God in tune with his heavenly Father.

Covid days seem endless. We thought it was a short blip in our lives, but it seems to never end. Many parents are entering a school year calling for decisions that are unprecedented and uncertain. Moms and dads are stretched like Silly Putty.

Whether or not Covid ends, this season of parenting will change.

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