Technology itself isn’t the enemy. It’s a powerful tool that can be used for good or for ill. The goal isn’t simply to limit screen time, though that may be part of the solution. The real objective is to train our children to engage wisely with technology, think critically about what they encounter, and stay firmly rooted in biblical truth.

As I travel the country speaking on mental health and suicide, one thing has become clear. Technology is shaping what we believe about the world and how we view ourselves as individuals.

Technology is everywhere. There’s no escaping its influence—not only in our own lives but also in the lives of our children. Here are three powerful ways technology is shaping your children and how you can help them respond with wisdom and discernment.

The first way technology is shaping your children is through algorithm-driven content. YouTube, Google, and other social media platforms and search engines aren’t neutral. These platforms use emotionally charged, agenda-driven content created specifically to capture your children’s attention and keep them scrolling and clicking, conforming them to the world’s way of thinking in the process.

Remember, there is no neutrality when it comes to worldviews. Your children’s worldview is being shaped by these algorithms without their even realizing it. Paul says, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Rom. 12:2). Teach your children to recognize and resist cultural conformity by rooting their thinking in the truth of God’s Word.

How do you reduce the algorithmic influences? Start by teaching your children to think critically. Teach them to ask, “What message is this digital media trying to communicate?” when they watch a video or read a post. Help them recognize bias, understand different agendas, and learn to evaluate content by assessing it according to a biblical worldview. As they learn to think critically, this will also slow their consumption of content.

Above all this, the most important thing you can do to combat the impact media has on your children is to stay actively involved. Don’t rely solely on filters or parental controls. These don’t always work. Instead, ask them about what they’re watching, engage them in discussions, and help them process what they encounter while scrolling.

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