Seven Reasons Why Many Pastors Avoid A Counseling Ministry
Counseling was listed last by pastors as their least favorite aspect of ministry.
A number of these pastors did not see their counseling sessions as fruitful. They did not know if they were helping, hindering, or hurting. They did not know how to evaluate the effectiveness of their counseling. Some wondered with transparency if they were wasting their time. I recently conducted an unscientific but revealing social... Continue Reading
Fellowship with Fellow Historians
Faith-based intellectual life invariably produces a sense of unity that breeds conformity.
This was my experience while teaching at Wheaton College and is very different from the environment at Hillsdale College. At Wheaton, the piety encouraged assumptions that all students and faculty were in agreement about Christianity. Yes, we might worship in different communions and congregations, but we were all essentially one in Christ. Call me... Continue Reading
Genuine Revival, Spiritual Affections, and Bodily Manifestations
True religion is not primarily a matter of the body or of physical manifestations.
True religion is primary a matter of the heart, of holy affections. Of course, such affections often times will have an impact on the body. But not always. Furthermore, the body can be influenced and manifestations awakened and sustained by causes other than affections. The division among Christian folk during the revival we know... Continue Reading
How Porn Hurts: Husbands and Porn
An addiction to pornography, if we use that word, is not merely something a husband struggles with— it represents serious mistreatment of a wife.
When Nathan confronted King David on the adultery and murder that he was hiding so carefully, he did so by drawing David into a story of a man whose actions were so selfish, so unloving, so disturbingly hurtful that David’s sense of justice and right was acutely aroused. Only then was David able to finally... Continue Reading
Critical Calvinists and Pride (Hughes, Bridges)
The more we understand the truths of the doctrines of grace, the more our critical spirit should decrease and decline.
The church of Jesus Christ is itself full of those who make a habit of criticism and condemnation. Some seem to think their critical spirit is a spiritual gift. But the Lord does not agree. In the opening verses of Matthew 7 (the final chapter of the Sermon on the Mount), our Lord sets the... Continue Reading
One of the Most Destructive Statements a Church Member Can Make
"You know who pays the bills at the church."
Yes, I know churches can expend funds in imperfect ways. Yes, I know all churches need systems of accountability and checks and balances with their finances. Yes, I know some churches need greater transparency with their budgets and spending. But there is absolutely no excuse for making threats with the money you and others have... Continue Reading
The Pastor in Your Background
It can be easy to overlook the influence of our pastors when they aren’t the kind that speak at conferences or put out books or drive us totally insane.
I listen to this guy preach once or twice a month, depending on the roster. He heads up the team of leaders caring for us, doing the same work beside them. He makes the call on which ministries our church continues or puts on hold. He’s been in my life for years in various roles,... Continue Reading
How Expository Preaching Should Engage Cultural Concerns (Part I)
Stott argued that the preacher is a bridge, and if he is to be effective, he must be firmly grounded on both sides of the canyon.
The preacher must be a careful student of both worlds; exegeting both his text and his times. To accomplish this, Stott contended the preacher must ask himself two questions: what did the text mean then, and what does it say now? The latter answer, of course, rooted in the former. In John Stott’s classic Between... Continue Reading
Codependent Struggles in Women’s Friendships
Rest assured that messy relationships are a “common to man” temptation and sin struggle.
Beth described her marriage to her husband, a pastor, as “living under the same roof but being physically and emotionally divorced.” With Anna, however, she experienced the deeply satisfying emotional oneness she had always craved. Their physical affection slowly pushed past appropriate boundaries. Before long, these two Christian sisters were involved in a sexual relationship.... Continue Reading
Forgiveness and Restoration to Ministry
What should happen when a pastor falls?
Pastors have a dual role in the church. As shepherds, they provide pastoral care, but as sheep, they need pastoral care. When a pastor falls into sin, he needs the same restorative care afforded him that is due to any believer. Paul writes in Galatians 6:1, “Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who... Continue Reading
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