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As Far As It Depends On Me

The New Year is a good time to consider prayerfully what really matters. What really matters in our relationship, in our parenting, in our home, in our church, in our ministry roles.

Written by Peter Mead | Sunday, January 11, 2026

Transparency with God in all areas of life and struggle, responsive prayer with your Bible reading, and/or dedicating greater time to intercessory prayer.  Of course, so much depends on Him, and so much is still unknown.  He may grow your relationship with Him in ways you have never considered, and maybe might never choose.  Nevertheless, it is good to pray through what this relationship looks like from your side as you head into the New Year.

 

As we launch into a New Year, there are many unknowns.  We do not know what today will bring, let alone twelve months of days.  We cannot predict global affairs or the specific circumstances in any one of our lives.  This means that, above all else, we need to entrust our steps to God and walk forward by faith.

However, it may be helpful to reflect on our heartfelt intentions as we head into the New Year.  In Romans 12, Paul gives such a helpful thought on interpersonal relationships:

If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.

(Romans 12:18)

Paul knew that it would be unrealistic to hope to control outcomes when we have no control or even influence over the actions and responses of others.  The context makes it clear that people will act dishonorably, and people will perpetrate acts of evil.  And we could add that in the church, people will behave unwisely, unkindly, and destructively toward relationships we have poured ourselves into over many years.  It is tempting to want to sort it all out, correct everyone, and fix the mess.  Paul is more realistic.  We can only do what we can do.

What is true in relationships is also true in all areas of ministry.  We can only do what we can do.  So in that spirit, here are three areas to consider as we head into 2026:

So far as it depends on me, I desire to live prayerfully this year. 

How would you define your priorities for your walk with the Lord this year?  This is the most important relationship you have, so it is wise to think through how you intend to lean into it in the coming months.  Perhaps you want to prioritise time in the Word of God, listening to His heart and values to shape your own.  Perhaps you want to prioritise rest and the rhythms of sabbath to support your spiritual health. 

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