Peter’s not saying that because trials are temporary and a necessary part of life on earth, that they are trivial. He’s not saying, ‘Quit your whining.’ No, he acknowledges “you have been grieved.” The Scriptures are clear that trials can be grievous and devastating. Jesus knows that better than anyone (Isa 53:3-4). Why did Jesus suffer? So that he could win the battle against sin, and do away with it forever. Jesus suffered the worst trial, so you could hope for heaven.
Think of the most physical pain you have ever been in. Perhaps it was a broken bone, or a burn, or an abscess or migraine, or labor. Now I want you to be honest about whether you would choose that pain twice over when compared with what Mr. Sampson Parker endured.
Parker had been harvesting corn on his family farm when some stalks got stuck in a set of rollers. He reached into the (still-running) machine to yank out the obstruction when the rollers grabbed first his glove and then his hand. There was no one near enough to hear his desperate cries of agony. He managed to reach an iron bar and jam it into the chain-and-sprocket mechanism that drove the rollers. With his fingers growing numb he pulled out a small pocket knife and started to cut his own fingers off to free himself.
And if his ordeal had ended there, it would have been a good day for Parker, compared with what happened next.
More of his hand and wrist was pulled into the teeth of the mechanism and simultaneously the machine and the grass around Parker caught fire. He grimly realized he had to cut his arm off immediately or burn to death. So with a pocket knife he sawed off his own arm.
And if that was the end of it Parker would still have been having a good day, but the trial wasn’t over yet.
The bone itself was still caught fast. So, when he got down to the bone, he dropped onto the ground, using the force of his own weight to snap the bone and free himself from the machine. While he was choking from the smoke. And then he still had to walk home to get help.
In an interview Sampson Parker recounted the grisly story to a paling reporter, but ended the saga thankful to God for providentially equipping him with a pocket knife, for the fire which he credited as being the catalyst for his quick decision that spared him from passing out and bleeding to death, for the car that found him on his way home and took him to the hospital, and for sparing his life.
You may be thinking about how you would respond to a trial of that intensity, but I doubt you are still thinking about your own trials. Perspective is a powerful anesthetic for self-pity.
1 Peter 1:6 In this [eternal security] you rejoice, though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been grieved by various trials
By “trials” I mean all the stuff that happens to you that you wish didn’t; all that which is part and parcel of living in a sin-cursed, fallen universe. A trial is anything on the spectrum from trivial annoyances to traumatic afflictions—from stubbing your toe, spilling spaghetti sauce on your shirt, and family squabbles, all the way to serious trouble such as being diagnosed with cancer or getting a divorce, losing a job, a limb, or a loved one.
But no matter what you’ve suffered there is always someone who has suffered more. So Peter is offering comfort to his readers, many of whom had gone through various degrees of loss and persecution, by drawing their attention to a helpful insight into all trials: they need to be seen in the perspective of eternity.
You see, trials are always temporary. Even lifelong trials only last as long as your life. Then eternity begins and never, ever ends.